Woah, woah, woah. The very fact that you're tempted to "scream a torrent of abuse and vitriol" might be an indication that you're posting in anger rather than providing a calm and balanced rational response. And to call me "whorephobic", anti-feminist", and "woman-hating" is quite frankly insulting. If that's not what you consider "abuse and vitriol", I'd be curious to know what is.
And you're just plain wrong when you say submission has nothing to do with it. I am in the service industry myself, not as a sex worker, but regardless, the very definition of a service is something you submit to do for another person. Every time I show up for work, I submit to what my managers want AND what the customer wants. And I do it because I'm compensated for doing so. If I was not submitting and instead under my own power and discretion, there's surely better things I'd be doing with my time. But I need the money, so I parcel out a portion of my time to practice this submission in order to receive the monetary compensation. If I was doing it for my own desires, I'd be a volunteer and not an employee.
That's why they call it work. And while it seems obvious you've dealt with a lot of people who are genuinely "whorephobic" or whatever other slurs you've used for me, I'd quite appreciate you not transferring your offense with them onto me simply for recognizing that fact.