I wonder if any of the Marvel writers/editors who so defiantly defend OND and the "Brand New Day" Douche!Spidey that's come out of it have actually read any of the old great Spidey/MJ stories (in-continuity or not). They were such a great couple and even if you did away with the marriage vows, there was no earthly reason (except for Queseda's twisted thinking and his need for Spidey to be a 25 year old manwhore) they shouldn't be together right now.