No, I explained pretty clearly that I didn't say he was keeping her from anything. I said that I as a reader didn't consider it a happy ending that she was all set to be married after high school. I didn't blame Bob for taking anything from her. I as a reader was not supposed to be thinking of anything else for Candy.
And yes, we are interpreting from our own experience, though I'm not using life experience, just my experience of how I took the didactic messages in the comic based on how it was written. For instance, presumably I was supposed to see Betty as a shallow woman for being interested in a movie star compared to Candy's wonderful example, but I didn't. Let's face it, it's not like this comic is a literal example of anybody's life experience. In real life Candy would at some point deal with actual flaws in Bob rather than the way he wears glasses.