Yeah, I'd figure the guy would be biased against OMD. He's been reading Spider-Man long before I was even born and is probably the most knowledgeable guy on the subject ever. I'd be worried if he wasn't angry.
But I don't really see how his actions are heroic if he's guilt-tripping his wife to go along and going against the wishes of God himself to make a deal with the devil. For your analogy to work, he'd have to be dragging MJ kicking and screaming into the burning building with him.