It's one thing to take down superpowered menaces that are terrorizing New York that the police can't handle and saving lives in the process.
I mean Christ, can you imagine if Joey Q said this, "Well, yes, Spider-Man breaking into a hotel room to have sex is illegal. Hut hey, it's illegal to fight Dr. Octopus without giving him his due rights. So it's the same thing, really!"
I'm baffled that I have to explain the differences here.