The thing is, kink is totally different from not knowing who the hell you're sleeping with, or mindwiping your partner's brain just so you don't have to deal with them as a person, rather than a fucktoy.
I've DONE this, where you make sure you leave before the strange man wakes up so he doesn't annoy you with his whiney needs. It's because I didn't like men as a species. At. All. It was hateful of me, and it's hateful when Peter and Felicia do it.
But I wasn't a superhero or someone who's supposed to be likable enough to pay money to read about. :/