Except that, according to Joe Quesada, "everything still happened except for the wedding," so by Marvel's own account, this theory is automatically wrong. Of course, Quesada also said that Mary Jane never got pregnant, so who knows WHAT'S really in continuity, which is one of the biggest problems with the new status quo, because WE STILL DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THE ACTUAL FOUNDATION OF THE NEW STATUS QUO IS, NEARLY TWO YEARS INTO IT.
Anyone who thinks this qualifies as good storytelling should be banned from buying or reading comic books ever again.