I alrwady made a comment but I want to say something else. I never liked that article. Everyone who replied was very presumptuous about the original writer. Such as when he made the list of faults every OR he had in there they quickly replaced with an AND. They criticize him for wanting it all, but when a woman downthread mentions women want the whole package there's no critique there.
people down the thread talk about people like him not being assertive. THis is the 21st century. Maybe he was just hoping to meet a woman who'd make the first move.