I dont do males that often, so much in regard to that I dont because I feel my guys would come off girly and dont think my mind would fit in place of that of a male. And as alldayriot said I couldnt do the sex scenes, Id feel out of place. With femmeslash, I dont think itd be that difficult. In the end I just dont think either are for me?
Why its so popular, I dont know.. maybe because todays world is so diverse?