Of course you won't - because that would be reasonable. To give him and us space to get all of this sorted out. And why be reasonable after all.
Oh for the love...Ron's going to be a gentleman and not accept and this is going to drag on forever...there isn't enough wine in the world to make this less of a mess.
You know what? You do what you need to do and how you need to do it. Both of you can.