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Lavender Juliette Brown ([info]spiceandsass) wrote in [info]reduxpitch,
@ 2016-08-08 10:40:00

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Entry tags:!owl, character: hermione granger, character: lavender brown

OWL POST


Hermione,

I realize that we haven't always been incredibly close. So please understand that I am trying to restrain myself and keep this from going into a Howler.

Would you mind explaining exactly WHY you felt the need to kiss Ronald Weasley the other morning? You see, we are - or were - possibly still are - in the process of getting back together. So your timing to decide to kiss him is highly unfortunate.

Because you see - he's not yours to kiss.

Keeping a respectful distance so as not to assault you with my tea cozy,

Lavender Brown


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[info]hgrngr
2016-08-08 12:03 pm UTC (link)
Lavender,

I'm really sorry, I did not realise you and Ron were in a relationship again! I would have never even attempted to, well, anything, really, had I known.

The chocolate thing from a while back, it has been affecting me... oddly. One of the things I've experienced since consuming the chocolates has been a... affection, I guess, for Ron. It's awful. It's been very confusing and hard to tell what I'm feeling and what is an echo from the, well, 'alternative universe', I guess. I thought kissing Ron would help me understand better what I was feeling, or not as the case may be. It did, too. I don't know what my life is like in this alternative universe, but it does seem to feature Ron. Kissing him, though, I knew me of this universe really isn't interested in him.

Please don't blame Ron for me kissing him, I'm rather sure he didn't particularly want to.

I'm glad the two of you are back together, I hope this hasn't ruined that. You're a very good match and I really am sorry if my actions have affected that negatively.

I can promise you I never ever intend to kiss Ron Weasley again.

Also I'm not sure how much damage a tea cosy can really do.

Hermione.

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[info]spiceandsass
2016-08-08 12:34 pm UTC (link)
Hermione,

What we are is - complicated at the moment. We were in the process of getting things back on track - and now things are more complicated than they were - in no small thanks to the other morning.

Ah, and if it had just been you kissing him - I would write it off as something else. But he was an active participant. I understand the chocolates and their effects - having lived through night terrors of my own death over a series of nights.

Well, while I am thrilled that kissing Ron helped straighten you out - I do hope that you realize that it did affect things other than you. Even if I wasn't in the picture - you can't just go around kissing people for some sort of research.

We are in a state of limbo.

And why I am about to tell you this - I have no idea - but if you are going to base everything off of one kiss? Then you slightly mad. The first kiss is rarely good - neither of you know the other. Kissing is an art form Especially if you just insert yourself into someone's space and BOOM! Kiss.

I sincerely hope not - it would further complicate things for and with Ron. He doesn't process things rapidly and if it's not really explained to him till he understands - things tend to not end well. I am going out on a limb and assuming that you did explain things till he understood the why. That he and the kiss was simply an experiment to that you could more clearly understand what you needed.

To hell with everything else.


Sincerely yours,

Lavender

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[info]hgrngr
2016-08-08 12:43 pm UTC (link)
Lavender,

'He doesn't process things rapidly' is possibly the most accurate thing I have ever heard anyone say about Ron Weasley.

Yeah, I don't think I explained anything.

Shit.

I'm really sorry. You're right, I shouldn't be going around kissing people for research. Especially not before making extra sure those people would want to be kissed or are not currently being kissed by someone else.

As much as I agree that perhaps more kissing would make me change my mind, I neither want to nor intend to. I don't want to be kissing Ron Weasley and I am very sure he doesn't want to be kissing me either.

Is there anything I can do to make this okay?

Hermione.

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[info]spiceandsass
2016-08-08 01:02 pm UTC (link)
Hermione,

I am going to take all of that to assume that no, you didn't explain things. And that you are more than likely right now realizing that not everyone can read your mind.

I am thrilled that it has occurred to you that using people for your own needs may not be the best way to resolve these issues. After the fact. Hind sight is twenty-twenty and all.

Also - I agree that you two kissing again shouldn't happen. Ever. However, I am also of the opinion that it shouldn't have happened in the first place since all the 'need to know' resided with you and not with Ron. At least - that is what I was getting from him the other night.

No, there really isn't anything you can do. You have kissed him, he has kissed you and whose to say if you get more chocolate issues it wouldn't happen again? Just like I live in worry of the night terrors returning.

All I ask, is that you kindly keep in mind that your need to 'understand' ALL things doesn't trump other's peoples needs to not have their lives disrupted.

We were in such a good place and now I am three times as confused, and I don't trust you to not need to 'understand even more...what if you get more things you need to...dammit why couldn't you just stick to books and such?

Lavender

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[info]hgrngr
2016-08-08 01:18 pm UTC (link)
Lavender,

Do you want to just kiss my next boyfriend? Will--no. That probably won't help.

You're right, I'm sorry. I will apologise to Ron also, I wasn't very fair on him.

Hermione.

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[info]spiceandsass
2016-08-08 01:22 pm UTC (link)
Hermione,

For the love of Godric --- do so via owl. You and Ron in a room together and gods only know what you want to explore and figure out next...

I agree - you owe him an apology. From a distance. Perhaps from Mongolia.

Lavender, who still is pondering assaulting you with her tea cozy

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[info]hgrngr
2016-08-08 01:25 pm UTC (link)
Lavender,

I really don't want to kiss Ron ever again. It was pretty awful the first time. But I'm not going to avoid him. In Mongolia or otherwise.

Hermione.

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[info]spiceandsass
2016-08-08 01:34 pm UTC (link)
Hermione,

Of course you won't - because that would be reasonable. To give him and us space to get all of this sorted out. And why be reasonable after all.

Oh for the love...Ron's going to be a gentleman and not accept and this is going to drag on forever...there isn't enough wine in the world to make this less of a mess.

You know what? You do what you need to do and how you need to do it. Both of you can.

Lavender

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[info]hgrngr
2016-08-08 01:38 pm UTC (link)
Lavender,

I'm hardly going to seek him out. I'm sorry I kissed someone you care about so much. I'm not interested in ever kissing him again. I can't really say anything else about it.

This isn't going to drag on forever because there's nothing to drag on. Not on my part, at least.

Hermione.

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[info]spiceandsass
2016-08-08 01:49 pm UTC (link)
Hermione,

No, I guess I should be thanking you - because you have shown me that maybe I am not as forgiving where this as concerned as I want to be. You started things, but he didn't stop them. And that I fear is the impasse.

I mean, no offense, but it's not like he couldn't take you if he had truly feared for his life - death by inept snogging would be a terrible way to go.

Yes and weeks ago - you wouldn't have had the urge to begin with. So you can't really say it won't come back and stronger now can you? If you had so little control the first time...


Lavender

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[info]hgrngr
2016-08-08 01:55 pm UTC (link)
Lavender,

I don't have a problem with impulse control. I chose to kiss Ron. Foolishly, sure, but not uncontrollably. I shan't do it again. Even if I really, really, really want to. Which I won't.

And really, I'm not being funny, but have you met Ron? I'm sure he could have stopped me, but he is also like a startled meerkat, it takes a while for fast responses.

Hermione.

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[info]spiceandsass
2016-08-08 02:03 pm UTC (link)
Hermione,

Again - you didn't have the urge before - and if something like the chocolates happens again? And more...urges come forward? Needless to say, my trust with your 'control' when it's something you need or want, is low. and my trust of him to resist, is low.

And yes, I have met Ron. He's a wonderful man with a host a very amazing qualities. And the fact that you didn't give him time to react or counter your very forward behavior in this scenario does little to soothe my concerns.

Again, thank you for helping me see things more clearly. Have a lovely day and whatever social niceties you feel should be enclosed.

Lavender

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[info]hgrngr
2016-08-08 02:07 pm UTC (link)
Lavender,

Have a nice day, too.

Hermione.

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