You wanna act like a little girl Mary? Fine. I'm gonna treat you like one. First off, abandoning your kids means you leave for selfish reasons, therefore, she really didn't. She did leave, but she did not abandon. Second, you do not get to talk to an adult this way and expect to be babied. I won't fucking have it. If you want to be mad, be mad. But if I ever catch you calling her anything again I will really make you miserable.