okay then, bare with me because i might start to babble. i'm thinking they grew up next door to each other, had the typical ew ew ew coodies thing, and then they got a little older like early middle school or whenever boys start wanting to hump things, she caught him spying on her changing. then daney being the girl she is would have just gone up to him at school all 'so you like to bird watch at night or what creep?' and out of that they started talking, became friends/smoking buddies and fuck around with each other, not in the bang bang sense but the whole maybe he water balloned daney and the guy on her very first date and she climbed in his bedroom window and glued a picture of a monkey to his face while he was napping right before he had a hot date. he was the comic relief she needed after her sister passed and she probably says thats what she said after all his pervy statements? all in all a twisted version of the whole joey/dawson climbing in each others windows being close thing.