that's awesome! 25 is totally fine. we can say she started four years ago? he took a year off and his sister-in-law helped a lot. but then he was like we both need to work and do things for ourselves. she would have her own suite so she could just shut the door and be left alone if that's what she needs. and she's welcome to have guests as long as it's discrete, etc. it's a very flexible and respectful arrangement. he never wants her to go without or anything like that. so if she needs the night off like it's not a big deal.