i think this would be wonderful for her, honestly. i'm imagining she's kind of the black sheep of her family, so having a sort of found family that she's able to look after and have them care for her in their own way while she's able to reciprocate in kind with things she wished she would've received from her own parents. i'd be down for having her be live in, it seems like it would be easiest to deal with the job and his schedule. i think she's going to be newly 25 if that's not an issue? how long were you thinking that she's been working for him now?