yes please! so i'll have a narrative posted about this sometime next week, but the short-ish version is that once his ex moved to prague with the girls, they eventually made an arrangement for them to visit him back in the states every few months for about a month or two at a time (and he would go out there to visit every once in a while, too). but the deal was he couldn't drink or smoke when the girls were there. this april, his oldest (17 years old) finished high school and decided she wanted to move out to ash harbor to live with him permanently while she saves up money for college or whatever she wants to do next, but the ultimatum from his ex was only if he sobered up 100%. his daughter moved in with him in may and he's been...well, 99.9% sober since. :x