so there are 4 kids total. cate is the youngest and the only girl. when she was 10, their parents got divorced because their mom ran off to cleveland with another man. cate has never had much of a relationship with her since, but it would totally be up to you if he did or not. she's been in bh for over 3 years now, but i had said that he'd only been in town like 6ish months, but no more than a year. ~mrgo is a cousin, so he'd have that connection, too.