i cannot promise you that griffin isn't actively avoiding trying to get abducted, particularly when high and babbling about whether or not time is a circle. honestly it warms my little heart that they'll be so great with him since he was absolutely a weirdo of his generation (and to be fair still is pretty weird) but not having to explain it or feel like he SHOULD explain it will mean the world to him. caregiving is absolutely stressful too, as much as he adores his grandma, so having that sort of safe space to unwind with them is absolutely needed (even if sometimes the space is just the roof of his own house)