so i think she was definitely in a band at one point but ended up quitting when she found out she was pregnant to get married and dedicate more of her time to her job and just became a workaholic to kind of hide from her home life . i'm thinking she initially started in finance and kind of shifted over to being a consultant for tech bros, teaching them public speaking skills and helping the company shift from startup mode to being a major player in their given industry without hemorrhaging money. the band would have been around 2006 - 2012 while she was in high school/college/a little out of college, punk or punk adjacent in sound.