i am! they're still married, but have lived separately and have been openly dating other people since 2018. it's an arrangement loosely inspired by danny devito and rhea perlman. they know they're not compatible; they've also been a part of each other's lives for too long to completely disassociate. as a heads up, they have a grown son (21+) but mutually agreed to stop after the one child which led to nic getting a vasectomy. this has been a dealbreaker in the past so i wanted to let you know.