kindler so, of course i want a guy who she can just come over, sleep with, and leave. and maybe a guy or two she's slept with and are now friends with, and there's maybe some teasing here and there, but it never goes anywhere. but!! i'd also love a girl for ceaseless teasing and the occasional make-out session, because why not? other ladies for buddies, maybe a guy friend or two to help her de-bullshit messages sometimes, etc. etc. etc.