anyways... she started dating the guy (noah) toward the end of undergrad. things were very serious: they moved in together and opened a business (hello kiss of death - because you know it all fell apart). the best friend (sam) was her roommate in undergrad, they were super close - but one thing led to another and sam and noah hooked up. again and again. it really kind of ruined jo going forward - petty insecurities and that feeling of never enoughness.