lifestyle a bassist for the band he's got with boogiesboys and pesce, guy friends, past present and future flings/blind dates/casual girlfriends, a couple of step-kids (any gender, 20-28yo, mother's pb: lisa bonet) he has raised or kept in touch with since their mother's death 13 years ago, grief group members, anyone who knows his housemates cellos and tatas, nieces delaluna and prints