actually really similar sounding in that regard - almost all her past relationships/flings were very casual but honest and she generally develops an actual friendship that keeps up afterward. she never would've had an issue with her job (actually thinks it's pretty dope and would totally still come in and tip well), esp considering she makes of content herself. but she was terrified of actual feelings so keeping things lighthearted and fun would've been totally her vibe. i also believe her now spouse bartends at the club sometimes