i'm completely flexible on age. her father would be older though, very close to his mother's age. i didn't specify how old exactly that she was when murphy was born but his parents married in their early 20's. murph is turning 39 next month. i was thinking mom was around 62/63. i also said that her new husband is a professor at the same college where she is, if that works for you. they only recently married in 2017. murphy's father (her first husband) died when he was 5. then she remarried a man and was with him until murphy was 16 and that ended very badly. so she swore off relationships and married for a long time. refused to date until both of her children were grown because of reasons you can find in his bio.