he's 39 so they're close in age. he was married up until september 2019 when his wife was killed in a car accident, i've been looking for her best friend that he's kept in contact with, as his wife was born in and was raised in honolulu and met him while on vacation visiting her grandparents and dragged him back to this side of the island with her when he was 23, would that interest you? if not we can come up with something else!