lifestyle anyone she'd know through her brother ~totchos, two step-siblings to round out their chaotic family (m or f, 20's), the ex she ran away with to california for a summer when they were teenagers (m or f), more close friends for a codependent ride or die crew in their early 30's, the internet friend she met on a good charlotte message board in the early 2000's and serendipitously bumped into once she moved to boston, anyone in the medical field (she's a trauma surgeon!), any and all influences to encourage her to live a little, anything and everything for this overworked mess