his first love actually passed away right after he moved to denver which is a main reason for all the floaty-ness of his personality. before that he was a bit more focused and lived life by the book in regards to what his parents expected of him. he was still outgoing and playful but a bit more serious and reserved. now he goes by a mantra that buffy so famously quoted - "seize the moment because tomorrow you might be dead." ASIDE FROM THE SAD, he's also very much into skinship so he's hand-holdy as well