she has a similar reputation actually in that she's a hyperperfectionist and can be pretty demanding (mostly of herself, but sometimes of other people if she feels like they're really phoning it in). it could be something that initially helped them relate to each other but now he's trying to teach her that it's okay to only be 95% in control of things instead of 99.99%? i was thinking pacific palisades for her since she'd want to be close to the water!