he seems to be the winner! they were together back around 2010-2012 and have since managed to get on better terms, so some definite awkwardness potential in there. he tries to be laidback, fails at it, and has a default state of mild exasperation, though he attempts to be personable in public (to varying degrees of success). it can take a bit to really get to know him, unless something he feels particularly stubborn about comes up, but he's a good time at a party and definitely used to spend more time doing that in years past. what about shelby?