anyone 30+ works fine! details wise, they share the same father and he and bex didn't meet each other until around 2011 when she was still living in sleepy hollow, ny. i actually don't remember the details of how he found out about her, but he decided he wanted to get to know her when he did. she had no idea he existed, but her father did and never said anything. we can hash out anything else we need to. she's only been in bar harbor since february.