She moved to Bar Harbor about 6 years ago after her husband's death because she couldn't stand staying overseas. I'd say about a year into being Stateside, she may have attempted to date this person and at first, things were going pretty great. Some time into it though, she probably had a bit of a meltdown and panicked, putting a halt to things. So these days if they run into one another, it could potentially be awkward and she'd still have some guilt over it.