if female I have two specific lines i'm looking for, assuming you're okay riding the hot-mess-express with me. one being the mother of his child, which could have been an epically failed relationship or a friends with benefits that ended in an oopsie-baby they co-parent. the second being the woman he has had an off/on relationship with; they "accidentally" got married and for various reasons never got divorced so they are technically still married, even though they aren't together.
if male, him and violetti need three more brothers to finish of the family! one would be older than him (he is 37) with the other three being younger then him, but older than their baby sister who is 30. :D