he could always use another mom friend. he was sort of an awkward kid, sort of like neville longbottom, very klutzy and just a bit of a mess. he's straightened up some since college and has gotten his shit together. he's got two older brothers, so they can definitely relate about being the youngest, and his family is big and close too, but also all back in new zealand, so he's been missing them in the last few years.