he'll be around 38, a new york native. i'm trying to decide what i want him to do for a living. i'm thinking either a sex therapist or a marriage counselor but i could go off in a totally different direction so don't quote me yet. but he's also going to have some investments, maybe inherited some properties in different places. so he's got some income. and he's pretty indulgent and is constantly spending money. he doesn't like to tell himself or his friends/family no. he likes to travel, likes sports. is probably drawn to gambling. he probably has a bit of temper, that flares hot and then subsides soon after and it might get him into trouble now and then (more than he likes to admit)