i know what you mean. i still ask the question, but sometimes it's so hard to summarize a person. graham is 24, almost 25 and has lived in bar harbor when he was adopted when he was 6. he went away for college, but moved back about two years ago. he's a gym teacher at the high school, and this is his first year teaching not in a sub position. he was a cliche popular jock in high school, definitely was more into sports and a social life than academics, and is pretty outgoing and an extrovert.