okay perfect, let me go look. she was born and raised in hawaii until she was about 11 and they were stationed in winter harbor at the naval yard there though because of her fathers position he didn't live on base and commuted the hour from bar harbor to winter harbor. after graduation she joined the navy to follow in her father's footsteps but ultimately didn't make a career out of it and has been back in bar harbor since about 08/09. we could say they went to high school together or even lived in the same neighborhood and that's how they became friends?