oh, i see! no, i'm happy to have them have been more serious then. she has most experience with women, so we could say he was the first boyfriend she'd had since high school? i can see it being a bit longer then - maybe it got to where normally couples would move in together but both of them were kind of hesitant to do that, and it helped them realize they weren't ready for more commitment? we could say they've remained friends, with or without residual feelings