she's a slight meddler, thanks to an upbringing with a coddling mother, has big patience but short temper, enjoys listening to others but craves her own attention thanks to that upbringing with two conservative parents that were well off and tended to give them just a little too much. because she's never had a stable relationship to look up to (her parents are hot messes when it comes to love and her brother is stoic in his relationships) she tends to martyr her way with others intimately and thinks she's doing them a favor by sabotaging or severing things that could be really, really good. hence, a banshee herself to commitment. she'll invite herself to parties if she overhears others talking about it, doesn't like to spend too much time alone, hates everything that her parents want for her well being (including taking over the family business), and worked hard at her current job to get into without using that family money. WHAT ABOUT HIM. i'm also sorry for rambling, i'm trying to flesh all of this out too in her bio