no worries! we could start with how long they've known each other and work from there? she's a few years younger, but if he's a local, maybe they went to high school together? depending on when he first started playing music they could have made a silly little garage band that she offered to join after being kinda flirty, and now that he's back in maine they fell back into their relationship? she's a pretty good listener when someone holds her attention, so she would have been really supportive of him, and definitely would have been the type to offer "cleansing" or that she'll "help manifest it 😌"