shorebirds anything and everything for a queer ginger with a terrible southern accent and a sex and leather shop he named toys 'n' us because he thinks he's funny. a regular(s?) he serves as impromptu therapist for, folx scattered about the gender rainbow, anyone who's attended workshops or demos (across the entire spectrum, from basic "kink 101" to how to handle unsafe things... uh, reasonably safely) fellow southerners, past roommates, assorted past hookups and right-swipes even if they just sat around talking until six in the morning...