lets see! the tl;dr for nate is a soon-to-be 31 yo, divorced widower, former army ranger-turned-sfpd for a few years who is now part of the csa full time. born and raised in brooklyn, but moved to san francisco some time ago. there's some extra time travel nonsense which unpacks a lot, lol, but very much company man, married to the job (what's a vacation, he doesn't know). could throw him out for a date-turned-friends situation or just friends since he needs some more of those anyway who aren't so wedged in work. she can bother him endlessly by way of travel blog to make him take a vacation, lol.