i don't want to say she's the conductor of the hot mess express, but she might very well end up being that way. so far i have her as a (mostly) couples counselor who can't take her own advice when it comes to relationships, has a relatively popular podcast about the same sort of subjects. she's definitely very stubborn, potentially to a degree of combativeness and is generally "a lot" but i haven't figured out exactly what that means. she's a big work in progress at the moment