that makes total sense! sia has grown up a lot over the few years and was a very selfish fucker for a long time, to be quite honest, so while she would be able to look back now and understand that soleil was understandably having a really hard time getting thrust on her grandparents like that, it probably wouldn't have been something that crossed 18/19/20 year old sia's mind. i'd say probably in the last couple years, especially, sia would've tried to take a really active interest in soleil and her life? just really wanting to finally bond as adults and all that. but she wouldn't have pushed too hard and would've always backed off a little bit if soleil went through periods where she might not have been really responsive to her reaching out!