i def think ana would have glimmered some of that out, she likes to pay attention and she's a good listener so if rowan slipped from time to time she would have pocketed some of it or encouraged her to talk if she wanted to. I LOVE HER GRANDMA but i also kinda love that they were both raised by their grandmas? ana's parents came back into the picture once she started high school and she's closer with them now but her grandma and grandpa are the ones who pretty much are her life, but maybe her parents also kinda took in rowan as well and always helped her grandma out with stuff? particularly with cooking since they ARE chefs lol