he was pretty cocky and overachieving, tbh. in his head he never thought he was particularly obnoxious about it, but in reality he definitely was. he was sort of the type where things came easily for him and so he could easily hae his head up his ass about some things. he was generally sociable/put together since appearances were fairly important to him at that time, but for people who were closer to him there was a lot of inner disaster beneath all of that. he's still all of those things to a certain extent, but much mellower/self-aware (-ish). tell me about her!