recognize i'd love two exes - one pre-2002 & post-2013 for fun times, more friends for her, other ladies & people 40+ to have support groups about aging in the business, others who are filled with existential dread during award shows and red carpets, girls to have wine nights with, oscar isaac, james mcavoy, bill hader, michael fassbender, sophie turner, idris elba, tom hiddleston