i'm hoping to find the ex that had him convinced he fathered her child, for a few years, until things didn't start to add up and a paternity test confirmed his suspicions. he didn't want to be a father in the first place but really stepped up to the plate when he thought he was, formed a bond, made sure the kid had everything they needed, her too, and even began exclusively dating her until it all went to hell in a handbasket.