the first would be his age and it was a mess from day one. he was an addict and the marriage really only happened because of an unplanned pregnancy. they had two kids and split up in a pretty shit divorce after the kids walked in on him with someone else. they've got a 30 year old and 28 year old. wife 2 came along a few years later, helped him clean his act up, and he was absolutely smitten with her. they had two kids, they're 21 and 18. he was a workaholic and she ended up having an affair that ended that one.