the first was a marriage he didn't want to mess with and only entered it because she was pregnant with ~cookiedough. he was pretty shitty and did a lot of cheating on top of being pretty strung out. another son was born to try and save it but eventually it ended and the divorce was pretty ugly. the 2nd was one he was head over heels for, one that helped him get clean and eventually the two had a couple kids, ~surrendered and an 18 y/o. he stayed married to his work and it caused a lot of issues.